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Men As Partners: Why The
Concern?
"Male Involvement and
Adolescent Pregnancy Prevention"; Adapted from an article by
Robert Becker, MS (http://www.etr.org/recapp/theories/mip/index.htm)
- Traditionally, family planning
and reproductive health services have been female focused. In
the past, this focus made sense since most family planning
methods are female dependent, and women are disproportionately
affected by the negative consequences of unintended pregnancy
and sexually transmitted infections. However, since the onset
of the AIDS epidemic, reproductive health professionals have
increasingly recognized the important role that supportive
male partners can play…While there are many
"women’s" health centers, there are a few
equivalent health facilities for men. Adolescent men are
especially at risk for unintended pregnancy and STIs because
they are more likely to be misinformed about sexuality and
sexual health. Young men are socialized to "know it
all" when it comes to sex, to not ask questions, and to
always be ready and willing to engage in sexual activity.
Young men initiate sex earlier than young women and tend to
accumulate more partners over their lifetime. These factors,
combined with adolescents’ overall sense of invulnerability,
lead many young men to engage in sexual activity that puts
their own and their partners’ reproductive health in
jeopardy.
The emerging awareness of the important role young men can
play in improving their own and their partner’s health has
led to an increase in the number of programs focusing on male
involvement. While male involvement has taken on many forms
over the years, the term has come to encompass any clinical,
community outreach, and/or educational initiative that
improves young men’s ability to make informed decisions
about their reproductive and sexual health.
Public support for male involvement has increased as attention
has been drawn to the costs of unintended pregnancy and child
support. Recent studies suggest that 70% of births to
adolescent women occur out of wedlock and that 4 out of 5
young mothers begin receiving welfare soon after the birth of
their first child. Some policymakers believe that by requiring
financial responsibility, men will be motivated to support
unintended pregnancies and births. There is a need to focus on
helping men avoid unintended pregnancies.
There is some encouraging evidence that male involvement
programs are working. Data from the 1995 National Survey of
Adolescent Males describes some of the possible positive
effects of male involvement programs
90 % of teenage males
having sex used condoms in the last year (although less
than half used condoms 100% of the time)
About 2/3 of teenage men
express little discomfort about discussing condoms with
a new partner
Among sexually
experienced teenage males, more than half have one
partner or less in one year
More than 90% of teenage
males agree that male responsibilities include: talking
about contraception before sexual intercourse, using
contraception to protect against unwanted pregnancy, and
taking responsibility for a child they have fathered.
Few teenage males
express the belief that causing a pregnancy would make
them feel like a "real man"
By age 19, 15% of males
are still virgins
Books/Manuals:
Not Just For Girls: Involving
Boys and Men in Teen Pregnancy Prevention (National Campaign to
Prevent Teen Pregnancy): http://www.ksinet.com/teen/user-cqi/puborderelec.cqi
Blueprint for Male Involvement
(Center for Health Training) 1809 7th Avenue, Suite
400 Seattle, WA 98101-1313; 206-447-9538; www.jba-cht.com
Web links
- AVSC’s Men as Partners
Program: http://www.avsc.org/emerging/map/index.html
- Reproductive Health Outlook
"Men and Reproductive Health": http://www.rho.org/html/menrh.htm
- FHI Network Magazine "Men
and Reproductive Health": http://www.fhi.org/en/fp/fppubs/network/v18-3/index.html
- IPPF "Male Involvement: An
Annotate Bibliography": http://www.ippf.org/resource/mbib/index.htm
- The Urban Institute Involving
Males in Preventing Teen Pregnancy: http://www.urban.org/family/invmales.html
- Sociometrics The Data Archive on
Adolescent Pregnancy and Pregnancy Prevention: http://www.socio.com/data_arc/daappp
0.htm
- Office of Population Affairs:
http://www.hhs.gov/progorg/opa/index.html
What Is True Manhood?
- Being a man is not about sexual
activity…it is about making mature, responsible decisions and
respecting yourself and others enough to practice safe,
health-promoting behavior.
- A real man takes full
responsibility for all his actions
- A real man stands up for his
values and character and stays true to the decisions that he makes
- A real man knows that sex does not
equal adulthood
- Remember: All males deserve
support in making the decision to save sex for marriage!
Useful Links
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